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So mammy #Iyanla Vanzant told #EbonieKWilliams and other successful bw they should be open to dating bus drivers and I’m tired. 😓🙄
So tonight we’ll discuss why “the community” was so triggered by Eboni K Williams establishing standards, why Blackistan is so obsessed with knocking bw down a peg, and we’ll also discuss how dating down statistically leads to BW being more at risk for divorce, cheating, and even DV…(read more at source)
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I say it to my peers all the time , I would rather remain single ( lonely with my cats 🐈) before I settle for a man with an average job .
Although , I just started in the engineering industry and barely make ends meet , I know I will have a nice career and benefits . What kind of sense does it make for me to date someone who makes less than me ?
My dad told me that the quickest way for a woman to change her social status is through marriage. Sorry , I have already experienced nice things with men who make $150k + ( easy in the data governance field ) , so even I wouldn’t date a bus driver 😅.
Black people act like social class doesn't exist.
We can’t win either way so don’t play the game. Be happy ladies and be free.
Shame on DJ envy he is disgusting 🤢🤢🤢
I find it hypocritical that she ( MAMMY SUPREME) can list her standards but attacked Eboni for stating HERS.
I agree with Eboni. It's OK for her to have standards. Blk men should understand, she is choosing better. Eboni wants a man on her level. There is nothing wrong with this. The bible calls this being equally yoked. Eboni, the only way you are gonna find your future husband is to expand your options. You are not gonna find him among BM. Most BM won't even come close to the money you want your future husband to make. Who don't like it probably isn't on your level anyway and need not apply.
Hey why is that homeless guy with the tan coat so upset, did he think he had a chance 😅
The same people who tell you to settle will be the same people who laugh at you for settling.
The problem is all you women think like men . You believe you’re men lol hahhhahah 😂😂😂😂
So bus drivers and blue collar guys are losers now? Wow .
I just want to know why she would go to her? I mean, I just wonder. Iyanla Vanzant pretends to be so liberated, and full of self love…….she sells this….but, that is all.
Not going to date a bm or date down. I am all for what Eboni said and I stand behind her 100%
It's literally a matter of values. Point blank period. A bus driver doesn't have the same values as an attorney. If he has so much potential, then he needs to go reach it. If most men were honest they would admit that being a bus driver isn't enough. That bus driver would need to start a transportation company and be successful, then he would need to sell the company and become a philanthropist. Only then would he be on Ebony's level. He wouldn't be able to stand the fact that she's of a higher caliber. It just wouldn't work. Go reach your potential first and then approach a woman. Until then, stop playing in her face and criticizing her for her accomplishments.
shes operating for an emotional place. I CAN'T
read thatCAN'T love a man who doesn't have a big ole bag that he is giving to me to eat off of. That's it. I said what I said.daтιng down ιѕ тнe dυмвeѕт тнιng a woмaм coυld do….donт do ιт, ιтll вlow υp ιn υr ғace! ѕтυggle love ιѕ a ѕcaм!!!!!
The thing is, moving the goal post on our standards is s kin to yt supremacy, which is why she brought it up in her response. Ppl are so triggered, date who and what you want, but don’t make blk women feel bad for setting boundaries and standards. We’ve been judged for accepting whatever in the past, now we’re improving & glowing and we want our mates to reflect who we are. That’s it. Do better💁🏽♀️
Lets keep it real = if she marries bus driver , bus driver quits job on his own becomes none working house husband because well to him she rich ! next he knocks her up 3 times in 3 yrs now she stuck with her do nothing kang because no one wants her with his crap and kids ! Next she divorces the dead beat he sues for support and gets it . Bus drivers make other bus drivers no matter who they with . Who needs a bus when you driving a RR ghost ! Star Jones neither you or Iyana has Eboni options = case closed . All yes bus driver will use her status and money to play and impregnate other women while he is with her . He needs to stay in his lane and she in hers . She better off single than having a grown DL A parasite at home ! All of us Know many women with a PHD/MBA/JDA /MD/DMD/ LLC/AKA married to a dead beat none working college drop out talking about some frat crap at 40 yrs old ! and by even the looks on those women faces living in a nightmare they THE WOMEN cannot get out of. Average in the BC is poverty and its generational ! The only folks agreeing with this bus crap have no cars and ride the bus and not by choice .
The energy that Umar used to make this video could have been used to build his school. Hasn’t he been collecting more building funds than southern Black churches?
Umar, sit down. You look like someone's crackhead uncle. Just be quiet
Iyanla is disingenuous. Just with the cases she has seen alone on her show. she knows the very real dangers of us dating down. How dare she! Vanzant has lost my respect on this. BW are literally being unalived due to dating down!!
Group solutions? It's the males who make the solutions and the women who nurture. So a** backwards
I’m not here to challenge a man to do better for himself. If he hasn’t figured this out by now, eff him! The days of dating down are so far behind me that I can no longer see them in my rear view mirror
Dr Umar asking Eboni where’s her solution for collective group economics….. but where is his school????…….